Get Even More Foxy

I’ll be honest, I spent a lot of my time in my youth wishing I was anything other than what I was. I didn’t want long, boring straight hair, I didn’t want to tower over my best friends and I didn’t want to be the brainy ‘square’ all the mean girls reminded me I was every. fucking. day of high school. But then in my 20′s I met a woman who was over 6 feet tall and loved wearing high heels, in fact she couldn’t get enough of her height! This was life altering for me.

From that day on I started to change the way I saw myself. Me. Not how anyone else saw me, just me. A big part of that was telling myself I was a total fox. It was back in the days before Facebook where mobile phones were a novelty but still pretty basic, and getting one included as part of your job was uncommon but both my best friend and I had one. I would text her a few times a week when I felt the planets had aligned and I’d pulled off a great outfit, or was having a fab hair day and tell her,

“I look like a total fox today, just quietly… ” [Tweet this]

She’d later tell me it used to make her chuckle and we’d always swap stories on our favourite new Mac lipgloss, pretty top or gorgeous (and often painful) shoes. Note, this was before the reality of babies and mortgages when we could afford such fripperies.

So, over to you…

I really believe that nurturing that mindset was so important to making me the foxy and fabulous glamazon that I am today. I urge you to take a leaf out of my book and take my total fox mindset and make it your own. Only don’t let it take you as long as it took me!

Louise

With over 15yrs of marketing, business development, sales and negotiation skills Louise is the best friend your small biz needs, the coach to put your social media ideas into action and the photographer who makes you feel better about yourself. lifestyle matchmaker for people who like to get shit done | photographer | F-bomb dropper | #IQS crusader | knitter